The Nutcracker-I never get tired of it

We had a girls afternoon with Ris and Lindsey to see a local performance of The Nutcracker.

This performance, although not Ballet West was wonderful, and included a full orchestra as well as tons of little ballerinas adding extra touches to the Land of Sweets.

Ris and I are so glad our girls are friends. If it's up to us they always will be!

I now owe Bub an outing while Miriam is at school....he is starting to notice and care about all these "girl outings" he is excluded from. I guess if I HAVE to go do fun things with the boys all week to make up for the fun girl stuff on the weekend then I will suck it up and do it.

{I hope the sarcasm wasn't missed in that last sentence}

Stay Golden Ponyboy

Nature's first green is gold

Her hardest hue to hold

Her early leaf's a flower;

but only so an hour.

Then leaf subsides to leaf.

So Eden sank to grief,

So dawn goes down today,

Nothing gold can stay.

-Robert Frost

Stay golden Ponyboys.

I went through a huge Outsiders phase in middle school.

I read it 6 times in one year and cried every time.

This Fall day reminded me of Robert Frost's poem, and I can't think of the poem without thinking of the line "Stay golden ponyboy" (my big brother use to write that in letters to me).

I watched Sven, Bub, and Ren play happily in the leaves warmed by the afternoon sun until it began to set.

Then it got cold, and the big boys came out which resulted in squabbles and tears...still fun but not the golden moment I had captured before.

It's harder for me to let Bub grow up than Miriam. Maybe because he isn't fighting to grow up like Mimi did, or maybe because I was so excited for M to reach the next stage, to see what it was like. I don't know. Maybe (and this just occurred to me) it's because Miriam is so helpful that I didn't need Bub to grown up so fast? Whatever it is, I am not as excited for the next phase with him, I want to keep him 4 forever.

Soren seems too stubborn to let me keep him young. Sometimes I feel like I am breaking a wild colt. He wants to do it his way on his terms. I don't want to break his little spirit but I do have to change his diaper once and awhile. He pushes me to the limit, but if Darin and I get the least bit stern with him....OH MAN you should see him crumble!

He brings so much laughter and fun the stubbornness is worth it.

So You Think You Can Dance?

Because my sister Julia lives her dreams we all get a piece of the action.

Miriam again got to tag-a-long with Encore Dance (again) to be taught by So You Think You Can Dance finalists.

Caitlynn Lawson

Marko Germar

Sasha Mallory

(and her sister...from another season or something?)

Tadd Gadduang (from SLC)

She met Ryan Ramierez and Wadi Jones at the last conference.

So her signed T-shirt is now her favorite article of clothing.

Thanks again Julia!

Our Second Grader

Isn't she lovely?

Teacher: Mrs Gibby

Favorite Subject: Language Arts, Math

Least enjoyed part of school: Spelling (must be genetic)

Best book discovery so far this year: The Doll People by Ann M Martin and Laura Godwin

School friends: Mary, Alex, Lauren, Jessica, Mya, Ashley, Tayler, and Kiera

Favorite School Lunch Meal: I like home lunch buuut if you're talking about school lunch, I like chicken patty and the days we get sorbet

What she likes to do durring recess: Cartwheels, monkeybars, or soccer

Halloweenies 2011

The big costume reveal of 2011.......

Wise Master Yoda

Fierce Jedi Knight

(I think technically it is Obi Wan Kenobi, but Bub didn't want to get technical)

A Woodland Autumn Fairy

Miriam sold 2 lbs of candy to Darin, and still has enough to have treats in her lunch till Christmas. She is giving the money to our "Caring Cousins" Christmas charity. Love that girl.

Byron will have treats till Christmas as well. He has waay less candy than Miriam but he can only take small doses of sugar at a time. Love that boy...wish I was more like him.

Soren gets all the candy he wants because he has two adoring older siblings. Love that Yoda.

I was introduced to the homemade donut lady's house so I call the night a huge success!

Happy Halloween!!

Join us for.....

Pantless pumpkin carving!

Just kidding, the rest of us were fully clothed. But some of us don't carve at all.

Bub pounds instead....he hates pumpkin goo.

Miriam loves the goo, and insists on doing everything by herself!

Now we are all spookified!

Dreams Come True

Miriam was chosen to go to lunch with her Principal!

It's a privilege she has wanted since last year, hard work (earning good slips) and luck (getting her slip pulled in the drawing) worked simultaneously to make a 7 year olds dream come true.

She picked out her outfit carefully, thrilled that it had turned cold so we could break out the winter stuff I had been storing since last spring. She skipped off to school with squeals of delight.

I don't think I ever spoke to my principal. I don't think anyone did unless they were in trouble.

Times have changed my friends....times have changed.

Primary Program 2011

No Pictures on this one.

I hate posts without pictures but we were busy today!

It was our primary program, which is a yearly religious highlight for me. I haven't made it through one of them without crying since 2005 (after having Miriam). Primary songs hit my heart like nothing else. And then...my parents and Darin's parents drove up (and down) to watch. I was so grateful they had come, I know it made the kids feel extra special.

Well, this year was no different, I cried. The problem was that I was singing a duet with Miriam while I was crying. She and I sang The Lord Gave Me a Temple. She sang the verses and I joined her on the chorus. I made it through the first verse, but the second I lost it and dropped out. Afterwards Miriam said "Mom! You were only singing every other word!"

I have decided singing solos and duets in church is for the stone-hearted.

How could I NOT cry?

Bub, who had zero desire to be in the program, stood up and said his part so loud and clear! I was so proud, especially since I knew how much he hated to participate at all. He is not our center-of-attention guy. He was given the part of "I lived in heaven before I was born...." so he finished it with "I lived in heaven before I was born, now I live on earth." Classic Bub, his brain is usually thinking of scientific stuff.

Then...

Miriam who is our center-of-attention girl sang her heart out. She said her part with dramatic pauses "Our bodies, like temples, are sacred, and need to be treated with respect by others and ourselves." She seems to have no fear of speaking or singing in front of people...kinda seems to thrive on it actually. After her part, I joined her to sing our song. Her voice was sweet, and clear, and beautiful. My mistake came when I glanced at a few friends in the audience...they were teary eyed which made me start to quiver inside. Then I looked at Darin and crumbled. Miriam took the lead and got us both through.

We had our parents over for dinner which I love. I enjoy big family gatherings, but sometimes I want them to be just with us. I'm kind of selfish that way.

That explains why there are no pictures...Darin and I had a dinner to get ready quickly so the 'rents could drive back home. Soren, having missed a nap was a challenge to say the least. Between dinner prep, squeezing every ounce of time I had with my parents and in-laws, and trying to keep Soren from screaming, the camera stayed quietly on the counter.

Pumpkin Hunt

I told the kids they could only choose a pumpkin they could heft into the cart themselves.

$20 later I realize I greatly underestimated their determination.

( some of that $ went to squash)

Oh well, it was fun.

The hay maze, crazy squash displays, and cornfield were all very festive.

On the bright side, at least they couldn't lift these babies!

Scenes from a Sunday Afternoon

Fairy Architecture

Some of those logs we were stacking had perfect fairy house bark potential.

Miriam and Ali set some aside as they worked to create some magic.

I found the perfect moss carpet to build around and the girls went to work!

This picture was taken when they had just started. By the time we left there was a couch, pillows, fridge, real food, and a leaf blanket. Unfortunately, in all the rushing of packing up I didn't get another picture.

Where Boys become Men and Men become LUMBERJACKS

The cabin was in great need of fuel for those cozy crackling fires we warm our toes by all winter.

It just so happened our scheduled jumberjacking day was also the opening of the deer hunt.

The guys went out anyway but decked out in "don't shoot me orange".

I think the chainsaw might of helped keep them safe too...probably not a lot of deer in their vicinity.

Now for some action shots:

Darin and my Dad rigged a pulley system so the cut logs could be pulled up to the deck.

Miriam and Ali loaded bag after bag full of logs, Sarah and Darin were up on the deck unloading and stacking along with.....

Soren, who was kept safely away from the axe swingers, entertained by their hard work.

This is going to sound strange, but I loved this weekend more than our play weekends. I loved working side by side with my family, coming in to rest and eat with satisfied exhaustion.

My Mom taught the kids how to play Mexican Train in the evening, which I soooo appreciate. I know how good it is for kids to play games, but it's hard for me to be motivated to sit down and play with them. It may have something to do with trying to help Byron play while entertaining Soren. The cousins had such a great time working and playing together.

I'll just end with this cozy shot of a few of my favorite guys.

Mom and Boys Day at the Village

Gardner Village that is

Soren detested the witches, wouldn't go near them, but here he is happy as a clam with sunflowers and crows.

(please notice the eyeballs on their matching jackets. Sweet after holiday find at Target last year)

Boys are so easy to please.

Found the witches, got a cookie, bought a $.99 monster toy and they were ecstatic!

Oh Miriam...

Darin found this on the computer tonight, Miriam wrote it a year or so ago. It's just a taste of how Miriam spends her free time. She is constantly coming up with some sort of party or production.

Thank you for coming to this circus.

Our first act will be The Clowns act! We hope you enjoy it! {Clowns act}.

The next act will be The sword & light saber swallowers! {Act}.

We hope you are enjoying it! Acrobatic Act. {act}

This will our last act of the day. It is called Grand Finale! {act}.

Love that girl....

Breakfast With A Witch

Actually, breakfast with lots of them!

Including these three cackling beauties.

Kennedy, Miriam, and Miriam's friend Ali. Poor Anna came down with the stomach flu and couldn't make it so Miriam called a school friend last minute to come with us.

The girls in the witch parade.

Miriam and Grandma, the woman who got us all together for the fun!

On top of everything else, she bought all the little girls a darling trick or treat bag for their dolls, and carried on the tradition of buying a halloween charm to add to their necklaces.

The Granddaughters

After breakfast we all broke off into smaller groups to shop or witch scavenger hunt.

Miriam and Ali found all the witches !

So....

Much....

Fun!

Three pictures is a bit overkill I know, but these two are so wicked cute!